Friday evening · Connect
Connect
We land, share a meal, and open the weekend with the question each of us brought.
Intention
Land here. Let what is true be spoken, and let the truth weave the circle that holds us through the weekend.
The day
Schedule
- 4:00 pm
ArrivalsSettle into your room. Walk the grounds.
- 6:00 pm
Opening dinnerCooked by Keith. No program, just the meal.
- 8:00 pm
Opening circleWelcome, agreements, a personal story, and our questions.
- 10:00 pm
Yoga nidraA guided deep rest, lying down, to close the first night. Bring your blanket. Then sleep, or join the evening spaces.
Sessions
How we'll spend it
Opening circle
Welcome. A few words on why we're here and how the days move.
Agreements. We read the proposed agreements together, adjust anything that needs it, and each say yes.
A story. Jesse shares a personal story with the group.
Our questions. The talking piece goes around. Each person shares the question they brought and why it matters to them right now. We listen. We don't answer yet. The questions are written down and carried into ceremony.
Saturday · Relax, then ceremony
Relax, then ceremony
The morning is slow. In the afternoon we enter ceremony together: we descend, we ascend, and we close in an integration circle.
Intention
Let the body settle first, so we can go deep without forcing it, and come back whole.
The day
Schedule
- Relax
- 8:00 am
BreakfastCooked by Stephen. Light and simple. Our last food before ceremony.
- 10:00 am
Last foodWe stop eating at least three hours before ceremony. Water and herbal tea are fine.
- 9:00 am
Values circleEach person shares his values and where they came from.
- 11:30 am
Rest and prepareStretch, walk, journal, or warm up in the sauna or hot tub. Set your intention.
- Ceremony
- 1:00 pm
Ceremony opensWe open with a set of simple tools to carry in, then begin together in the main space.
DescendWe go inward, carrying our questions and our values.
AscendWe come back up with what we found.
Integration circleStill in ceremony, each person shares what they're bringing back.
- 5:00 pm
Light snackFrom Dave. Something simple as we come back.
- 7:00 pm
Hearty dinnerCooked by Dave. Warm, grounding food.
- Evening
Before bedA space for music and ongoing reflection, and a space for conversation. Choose your own adventure.
Sessions
How we'll spend it
Values circle
Bring your list of values from the pre-meditation. Each person shares all of his values, three to five, and where each one came from, often a moment from childhood. Then one or two people reflect back what they heard. No advice.
The values we name here come with us into ceremony.
Ceremony
The ceremony moves in three parts.
Descend. We go inward and down, toward whatever is waiting. Our questions and values come with us.
Ascend. We rise back up and bring what we found into the light.
Integration circle. Before the ceremony closes, the talking piece goes around. Each person shares what they're bringing back, in as few or as many words as they have.
Wear loose, warm layers. Bring your blanket, water bottle, journal, and the object you brought to share.
Sunday · Integrate, then ground
Integrate, then ground
We close our integration together by 2 pm, then get out into nature.
Intention
Put words to what we found, make it specific, and let the land settle it in the body.
The day
Schedule
- Integrate
- 8:30 am
BreakfastCooked by Charlie.
- 9:30 am
Sunday circleOne circle through the morning. It ends in lunch.
- 1:15 pm
Closing lunchCooked by Chris. Our last meal together as a circle.
- 2:00 pm
CloseThe formal retreat ends.
- Ground
- Afternoon
Into natureA hike for those who want it, or rest outside. We'll see.
- 6:30 pm
Dinner outWe go out to dinner together.
Sessions
How we'll spend it
Sunday circle
One circle carries us from breakfast to lunch. We'll share what is ready to be shared. There is no need to make sense of everything yet.
Into nature
After 2 pm we get outside. Walk, hike, sit by water, lie in the grass. Let the body take in what the mind is still sorting out.
Monday morning · Ground
Ground
A quiet morning, breakfast, and travel home.
Intention
Leave the place better than we found it, and go home steady.
The day
Schedule
- 7:30 am
BreakfastSelf-guided. Help yourself when you're ready.
- 9:00 am
Clean upMany hands. Strip beds, pack the kitchen, check the rooms.
- 10:00 am
Sessions
How we'll spend it
After we leave
Integration keeps going for weeks. Go gently.
Keep your values list somewhere you'll see it this month.
Every evening · Before bed
Choose your own adventure
Two spaces stay open in the evening. Move between them, stay in one, or head to bed whenever you're ready.
Space oneMusic and reflectionMusic plays. Sit, listen, journal, or reflect quietly.
Space twoConversationKeep talking with whoever is still up.
Outside, the hot tub and sauna are open, and the dome is made for stargazing.
After ceremony on Saturday, wait until you feel fully clear before using the hot tub or sauna, drink water, and never go in alone.