Most of us will depart Sunday afternoon after we close at 2 pm. Everyone is welcome to stay until Monday.

Friday, November 6 to Monday, November 9

The Weekend

The full rundown, day by day.

Friday evening · Connect

Connect

We land, share a meal, and open the weekend with the question each of us brought.

Intention

Land here. Let what is true be spoken, and let the truth weave the circle that holds us through the weekend.

The day

Schedule

  1. 4:00 pm
    Arrivals

    Settle into your room. Walk the grounds.

  2. 6:00 pm
    Opening dinner

    Cooked by Keith. No program, just the meal.

  3. 8:00 pm
    Opening circle

    Welcome, agreements, a personal story, and our questions.

  4. 10:00 pm
    Yoga nidra

    A guided deep rest, lying down, to close the first night. Bring your blanket. Then sleep, or join the evening spaces.

Sessions

How we'll spend it

Opening circle

Welcome. A few words on why we're here and how the days move.

Agreements. We read the proposed agreements together, adjust anything that needs it, and each say yes.

A story. Jesse shares a personal story with the group.

Our questions. The talking piece goes around. Each person shares the question they brought and why it matters to them right now. We listen. We don't answer yet. The questions are written down and carried into ceremony.

Saturday · Relax, then ceremony

Relax, then ceremony

The morning is slow. In the afternoon we enter ceremony together: we descend, we ascend, and we close in an integration circle.

Intention

Let the body settle first, so we can go deep without forcing it, and come back whole.

The day

Schedule

  1. Relax
  2. 8:00 am
    Breakfast

    Cooked by Stephen. Light and simple. Our last food before ceremony.

  3. 10:00 am
    Last food

    We stop eating at least three hours before ceremony. Water and herbal tea are fine.

  4. 9:00 am
    Values circle

    Each person shares his values and where they came from.

  5. 11:30 am
    Rest and prepare

    Stretch, walk, journal, or warm up in the sauna or hot tub. Set your intention.

  6. Ceremony
  7. 1:00 pm
    Ceremony opens

    We open with a set of simple tools to carry in, then begin together in the main space.

  8. Descend

    We go inward, carrying our questions and our values.

  9. Ascend

    We come back up with what we found.

  10. Integration circle

    Still in ceremony, each person shares what they're bringing back.

  11. 5:00 pm
    Light snack

    From Dave. Something simple as we come back.

  12. 7:00 pm
    Hearty dinner

    Cooked by Dave. Warm, grounding food.

  13. Evening
    Before bed

    A space for music and ongoing reflection, and a space for conversation. Choose your own adventure.

Sessions

How we'll spend it

Values circle

Bring your list of values from the pre-meditation. Each person shares all of his values, three to five, and where each one came from, often a moment from childhood. Then one or two people reflect back what they heard. No advice.

The values we name here come with us into ceremony.

Ceremony

The ceremony moves in three parts.

Descend. We go inward and down, toward whatever is waiting. Our questions and values come with us.

Ascend. We rise back up and bring what we found into the light.

Integration circle. Before the ceremony closes, the talking piece goes around. Each person shares what they're bringing back, in as few or as many words as they have.

Wear loose, warm layers. Bring your blanket, water bottle, journal, and the object you brought to share.

Sunday · Integrate, then ground

Integrate, then ground

We close our integration together by 2 pm, then get out into nature.

Intention

Put words to what we found, make it specific, and let the land settle it in the body.

The day

Schedule

  1. Integrate
  2. 8:30 am
    Breakfast

    Cooked by Charlie.

  3. 9:30 am
    Sunday circle

    One circle through the morning. It ends in lunch.

  4. 1:15 pm
    Closing lunch

    Cooked by Chris. Our last meal together as a circle.

  5. 2:00 pm
    Close

    The formal retreat ends.

  6. Ground
  7. Afternoon
    Into nature

    A hike for those who want it, or rest outside. We'll see.

  8. 6:30 pm
    Dinner out

    We go out to dinner together.

Sessions

How we'll spend it

Sunday circle

One circle carries us from breakfast to lunch. We'll share what is ready to be shared. There is no need to make sense of everything yet.

Into nature

After 2 pm we get outside. Walk, hike, sit by water, lie in the grass. Let the body take in what the mind is still sorting out.

Monday morning · Ground

Ground

A quiet morning, breakfast, and travel home.

Intention

Leave the place better than we found it, and go home steady.

The day

Schedule

  1. 7:30 am
    Breakfast

    Self-guided. Help yourself when you're ready.

  2. 9:00 am
    Clean up

    Many hands. Strip beds, pack the kitchen, check the rooms.

  3. 10:00 am
    Depart

    Safe travels.

Sessions

How we'll spend it

After we leave

Integration keeps going for weeks. Go gently.

Keep your values list somewhere you'll see it this month.

Every evening · Before bed

Choose your own adventure

Two spaces stay open in the evening. Move between them, stay in one, or head to bed whenever you're ready.

Space oneMusic and reflectionMusic plays. Sit, listen, journal, or reflect quietly.
Space twoConversationKeep talking with whoever is still up.

Outside, the hot tub and sauna are open, and the dome is made for stargazing.

After ceremony on Saturday, wait until you feel fully clear before using the hot tub or sauna, drink water, and never go in alone.